Thoughts on My Journey
On October 29, 2022, I chose to cut communication and go “No Contact” with my abusive birther. As a survivor of childhood trauma, I sometimes feel caught between moments of not being alone and being alone in my struggles. I want to get my story, my Healing Journey, out there to share with others. No one should ever feel alone in their Journey.
Writing is my way of healing.
“You can’t create a better future until you repair on your damaged past and heal in the present. Be a your own piece of Kintsugi Pottery.”
A Reintroduction, A Catch-Up
I am relaunching my site. I have rebuilt it. This past year, 2025, was a very difficult year for me. So much happened that I deeply struggled with and through. I let my pain and hurt control my thoughts, life, and decisions. I fought with my spiraling carousel of mental health. My marriage became extremely unstable and we separated twice. We took those two separations to reflect and heal as individuals and figure out where we were and what we truly wanted. With all of the chaos in my life, I decided to step away from writing. This was both a good and a bad decision. Writing is how I work through things and heal at my pace. By not writing and sharing, it was harder for me to get back on my Path. However, by forcing myself to sit with my thoughts and reflect on the chaos, I was able to recognize how I was changing and remember what was truly important to me. My future with this blog is to integrate my comfort in writing with the deep self-reflection and discoveries I’ve learned. All of that to bring it to the conclusion that I’m ready to get back to business of writing, sharing, and moving forward. HUGS!
Learning Who I Am
I was programmed to believe that I was someone that I wasn’t and that my life was predetermined at birth. I believed that my life purpose was to be subservient to my mother, and that I belonged to her first. I now know that Humans don’t belong to other Humans.
Read About the Beginning
The First Steps on my Gracefully Dancing Journey
Read blog →The First Steps in a Graceful Dancing Journey
It’s ok to reach out. Ask. Be Curious.
It’s ok to ask questions. I don’t want to hide my struggles and imperfections. You’ve listened to my story, I would love to hear yours.